Who Are You?
Do you know who you are? How do you think of yourself and how would you describe that self to others. I recently heard a NPR broadcast suggesting listeners state twho they believe themselves to be in a concise sentence that starts with, “I am from . . . and I can . . . “
It was a formidable challenge to define myself in few words, but decided to give it a try.
“ I have moxie, independence, compassion and love, and I can dream, can do and can be.”
Once I put thoughts to paper I became intrigued with the process of describing oneself succinctly. Business coaches advise that it’s important to be able to identify your skills in brief during in a job interview, at networking events, or when developing a Linkedin profile. A way to organize you thoughts is to first identify who are you, then state for whom you do what you do, and finally mention how they will benefit.
“I am an executive and lay minister who helps museums, small businesses, and families become empowered through education, resources and information that improves careers and personal situations?”
I was on a roll, so after deciding not to describe myself in the Hausa Language. I took the plunge and tried a one-sentence definition to get me elected to political office.
“ I’m a mother of five, a fighter who loves our city and cares about leaving a healthier, vibrant, more compassionate community for the next generation.” Was that wishy-washy enough? Who can be against that sentiment? Perhaps I need to add “plus I’ll find a job for everyone.”
James Blanchard Cisneros says, “Enlightenment isn’t a change into something better or more but simply an expression of knowing who you are.” How in the world can you do that? One way to begin is by exploring your priorities, values, and interests. What makes you happy? What type of people do you like to be around? Describe your character, your style, and your overall emotional state? What are your boundaries? Does the exercise sound difficult execute in one sentence? No problem. . . break the rule and try two.
“I am a happy, engaged person who is curious, studious, and adventurous within limits set by my physical abilities and (most) societal norms. I like those who inspire me to reach outside my comfort zone, enjoy friends who make me laugh at life’s foibles and have such a bad memory that I forgive all who aggrieve me.”
Well now, that’s a that’s enough about me. What about you? Who are you? Take the challenge and share a sentence (or two) below.
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References:
LaCivita, A. (2019) How to describe Yourself in One Sentence: Elavorty PitchYouTube
Cisneros,J, (2015) A Journey of Self Awareness,. You Have Chosen to Remember Series ( A Journey of Self-Awareness, Peace of Mind and Joy) Chosen to Remember Books, Coconut Grove, Florida. Available in paperback and on Kindle on Amazon.
James,M Ph.D. ( 2012) Who are You? Psychology today. retrieved from https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/focus-forgiveness/201212/who-are-you
