A Passion for Art

Window to HomeWindow To Home
Acrylic painting on canvas, 20- x 15- , $ 325
We have art throughout our house, our own and that of others, creating a gallery for contemplation and enjoyment.

Passion for Art
Running the Oregon Museum of Science and Industry was a high-stress job. I had to keep 350 employees busy with new exhibits, education programs, a submarine and Omnimax films. Staff managed and operated the restaurant and the gift shop. Fundraising, also the job of the president, included soliciting donors, lobbing for legislative money and writing grants. It was a fun but a very exhausting position, and I knew that I had to have an outlet to manage stress. I exercised and meditated but my mind was never clear of work-a day worry.

Fortunately, Martin, my former artist husband, came to the rescue and convinced me to take up painting. He made me an easel for Christmas and set me up with paints, saying, -Go to it.- At first I was shy about painting in front of him since he was a successful professional artist. I did not want to take lessons and have to -learn the right way to paint,- because, frankly, that sounded like too much work. Instead I was encouraged to just enjoy myself and not to worry about what anyone else thought, nor think about producing pieces worthy of sale.

So I brazenly followed his advice and painted following the techniques and styles of the masters, and I didn’t worry about being good. Often, I redid the original art I put on canvas, painting only for myself. My husband was wonderful, always complimentary, only offering advice when I asked for it.

Painting became an all-encompassing passion. It helped keep my blood pressure low and enthusiasm high. It is impossible to put a dab of paint or a line on a canvas and think about anything else. Try it. You’ll see what I mean. While painting, my mind is clear of daily concerns for I am totally absorbed in what I am doing.

I started this hobby 30 years ago and have been at it ever since. Slowly, without realizing, I improved. Instead of always following the masters I began developing my own style. People began asking if they could purchase my paintings and I submitted some to be shown at festivals, winning awards and selling here and there.

Art has helped me see the world more clearly. Walking through the city or a country lane is a new experience with every step. I look at plants and houses more deliberately than before, noticing colors, shapes, unusual flaws and quirky images. I study eyes, noses, smiles, and shadows and consider how to portray a 3-D world on a 2-D canvas.

When I met Ray, visits to art museums became part of our travel experience and we became more focused on our home’s interior decorations. At first, I put my paintings up everywhere I could find space. Ray’s masks and totem poles were also liberally sprinkled throughout the house. After we became more knowledgeable and critical we started looking at works by other artists, buying their paintings and bringing them into our home. Summer street fairs became a search for the most unusual appealing art by local artists. A swatch of color here and a mood changing image there has transformed our house into an eclectic gallery. It is fun to look at the pictures and sculptures, remembering the artists who produced them and the circumstances of the purchases. Friends enjoy visiting and studying the variety of works that enhance our walls, sharing their impressions with hours of comment afterwards.

DSC04949From time to time my grandchildren asked to paint along side me during their visits. Sometimes we would go outside with chalk, selecting an interesting scene to draw. Other times they sloshed paint on paper, mixing colors and images that matched their own imaginations. Visits to art and craft museums gave our family an opportunity to talk about what we like or don’t like, what the artist was trying to portray and how styles have changed over the centuries. Very often their insights were more astute than my own.

Yes, art is now integrated into my life at every level. My studio is entrance to a woman-cave where time stands still. Painting has taught me patience, not to be too self-critical and to realize that practice certainly is necessary for improvement. It is wonderful to Raven and the Sun         be retired and have opportunities to create art and to match visual by Ray Losey                     expressions with written words. Most of all, art has shown me that          having a passionate hobby is fun and mind expanding. I recommend that you give it a try! You won’t be sorry.

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Summertime – Was the Living Easy?

1386187lHood River Bed and Breakfast
Acrylic painting on canvas 28” x 32” :    $ 399.
When traveling we often stay in a bed and breakfast.

Summertime-Was the Living Easy?

Vision of My Young Self
School is over and the fun begins. No more homework! Lazy days lie before me with nothing to do and no where to go. I can’t wait to get out my bicycle and go exploring the woods with my cousin. I’m going to sleep late and do nothing, nothing, nothing! Maybe I’ll see a few friends, eat a lot of ice cream and swim if it is hot. A whole two months for play. . .

Mom, I’m bored. There’s nothing to do. I miss my friends. When does school start again?

Vision of My Parents
We kids are home, and my parents are wondering what they are going to do with us? They worry about us being underfoot, tracking in dirt, being bored and needing entertainment. They complain that we are constantly hungry and let us know that we exhaust them. We have to go everywhere with Mom: to the grocery store, to the cleaners and she has to drive me to play dates. The good side is that she does not have to wake up early and run around like a mad woman to be sure we are ready for school on time. She actually seems more relaxed in the summer and happy to have us around. No school lunches to prepare.

Mom says that she needs to get organized, plan fun things to do together like going to the park on our bicycles. I didn’t like it when she read an article to my Dad about how children lose a lot of what they have learned during the school year when they stop academics in the summer? Now she thinks of summer as the time she gets to play teacher and counselor. What does she want us to learn? My school suggested daily time with work books that they sent home at the end of the year. Ugh! I wonder how much time I will spend doing math or writing so I will not fall back in school? If I’m lucky I’ll be sent away to camp or get signed up for swimming and tennis lessons. Maybe we can go to the beach for a family vacation. Dad says we need to stock up on vitamin D by being in the sun. Will they still make me practice the piano? . . . . . .

Mom says that she can’t wait for school to start again. Yea! it’s finally time and I am ready too. I wish that she wasn’t so happy to get rid of us next week. I don’t think I am that difficult. My cousin’s school began in mid-August. Imagine that!

Vision of Myself as a Parent Before I Started Work
It is so much more relaxing when the kids are off from school, but I need to organize myself to ensure they are busy. It’s no fun when they hang around bored. I want them to spend a lot of time outdoors but I also want them to keep learning. This is my time to round out the gaps in their school education. Nature camp or science camp for a few weeks seems like a good start, but my budget is tight this year. I will plan to arrange for a few excursions of my own. We might start with a tracking expedition in the woods. Later we can use our underwater scope to check out the creek and collect water samples to analyze. Food is a big issue so working on a garden would be fun. I think I will get a food dehydrator so we can take fresh fruit and make our own snacks. Fun, fun, fun! I like being the home teacher but I am lucky that I do not have to go to work. . . .

Well, you can get too much of a good thing. I can’t get anything done when the kids are underfoot. When does school start? I’m looking forward to Labor Day.

Vision of Myself as a Parent After I Started to Work
The kids are off from school. How am I going to manage? Do I just leave them home by themselves all day or do I have to pay for a babysitter? There are lots of summer programs but they cost money. Perhaps I can arrange different hours in order to take turns with my husband for home time. I wonder if my mother or sister will help out a bit. This is going to be a very exhausting summer. I have an idea. I am going to speak to my friend and see if she will exchange care time. I’ll take half a day and she can take the other half. If I have to work longer hours, then I will just have to pay for a sitter. We will plan for a family vacation and do some fun activities each day. The kids can help out around the house. I wonder if there are any free parks and recreation programs available this summer?

Why don’t the schools take responsibility for children over the summer? They should institute year round classes? Camps are too expensive. . .

Labor Day is soon approaching. We’ll have a family barbecue to mark the occasion and then off to school the next day. Yea! But, so sad too. My high school graduate will be entering college and I have to drop her off next week. I will miss her, even the arguments. A bitter-sweet time for sure. Hope she will be all right on her own.

Vision of Myself as a Grandparent                                                                                                                        
My grandchildren could be quite a burden on their parents this summer. The 16-year-old is lucky because she found a job, but the others are going to need attention. I think I will send some money so they can go to a week of camp. Ray and I will be taking two of them to the coast for a week, maybe even the mountains. That should help, and it will be a great time to get to know them better. When I was a child, my grandparents were always there to for me. I was lucky because the women and children in our extended family went to the beach for the summer. Men visited on weekends. That is not commonly done these days. My kids work and their children can’t be left alone. Too bad government austerity is making our city’s parks and recreation department cut their programs. I am glad the swimming pool is still open, though. I do wonder about my grandchildren. They do not appear to have the freedom to roam that I did as a child.

Oh my, I do miss having my family around, but on the other hand I like to travel. We always wait until children are back in school before planning a vacation. Who wants little ones running around the tourist sites and crying in restaurants?

Hope you had a wonderful summer and looking forward to a great fall.

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An Adrenaline Rush

First Fight

First Fight
acrylic painting: 26” x 25” $ 425

Parents occasionally fight but when violence, exacerbated by drugs and alcohol, is the norm, children are bound to suffer.

An Adrenalin Rush

Ray and I have been mentoring a youth who between the age of 16 and 19 had lived on the streets. Though his journey was wrought with a great many highs and lows, over the past four years he transformed himself into an industrial painter with a career that promises a good life. His experiences made me curious about why some homeless youth metamorphose while most do not. To learn more I read a great many studies and interviewed numerous adults engaged with this population. I am now drawing conclusions that I would like to share with the hope that you will provide me with your experiences and thoughts.

Teens leave their homes for a myriad of ugly reasons, most often involving poverty. Their Households might be violent, unsafe places with parents addicted to drugs, alcohol or illegal ventures. Or… they may have been kicked out due to their sexual orientation or their own involvement with prostitution, drugs robbery, gangs or truancy. Over forty percent have severe mental problems. Whatever the cause, once they leave school they are on a downward slope that continues to snowball in hopelessness. Each year, Portland agencies provide intervention to1000 children. Nationally according to Safe Horizons there are over 1.7 million on the streets.

My biggest surprise was discovering that life on the streets can be a lot of fun. Homelessness is often a relief from stressful situations and presents interesting experiences. I am reminded of ancient Indian rites of passage that sent youth into the wilderness on a vision quest, to hunt and discover that they can subsist on their own.

Modern day wanderers learn very quickly how easy it is to survive. They discover where to get three meals a day and how to find shelter for the night. They couch-surf or visit crisis centers in bad weather. There are known hang-out parks where 40-50 youth gather to smoke, play a brutal form of dodge-ball, competitive chess and to skate board. In the wee hours of the morning, one of the older kids might shout to the others, “You can crash at my place for the night.” Ten to fifteen teens might follow, listening to music and partaking in drugs before drifting to sleep on chairs, sofas and floor. Unfocused on consequences, the apartment dweller will often get evicted due to complaints.

To live on the streets takes constant vigilance and awareness of danger. Yet it is intriguing to watch illicit money change hands and to figure out how to avoid becoming the target of violence. Street life certainly beats going to boring school lectures while sitting still for hours at a time. And no homework . . . ah, the taste of freedom is addictive. There is no one to tell you to clean your room, when to be home and with whom to hang.

Gang Leader for a Day, is a book about the HUD housing projects of Chicago. The author, Sudhir Venkatesh, described how men joined gangs when young, rising in rank to become wealthy drug lords. Many of these bosses had the resources to move their mothers out of their decrepit buildings and into suburbia only to find that their moms preferred living in their old apartments. The women felt isolated in their new homes and missed the friendships that were formed with others who shared similar adversity. Families helped each other with food and babysitting, providing shelter when needed along with a listening ear. They bartered, threatened, bribed, hid drugs, paid protection money, strong armed and prostituted officials in order to survive. When there was a shooting, gang families in each housing unit formed a closely knit cocoon to fight their enemy. There was never a dull moment. Adrenaline ran high.

Homeless youth often become part of street families that protect their members from threats. From them they learn how to steal, beg and acquire drugs. Young girls are lured by pimps with the promise of love and become controlled through drug addiction. Attractive women can earn over $1000 a day being paired with well heeled businessmen or politicians. Why would these girls want to return to school or minimum wage jobs?

Street kids rarely understand that actions have consequences. Their role models were parents who lived from one pay or SSI check to the next with no thought of the future. Their families avoided banking, preferring to hide cash under mattresses or in holes dug in walls. On July 4th, in one of the poorest parts of Kelso, Washington I watched residents explode thousands of dollars in fireworks.

Middle class youth are monitored and continuously coached by caring adults. They are offered adventures through hiking and camping excursions, and given opportunities for thrills by rock climbing, horseback riding, snow boarding, water skiing and taking dune buggy rides.

Runaways seek similar excitement and quickly become addicted to street life. They too crave adrenaline producing ventures that test their survival skills. Though they are dropouts without a safety valve, they still want to participate in dramatic exploits. To entice them back into the classroom, educators need to provide adrenaline producing, hands-on training programs. These experiences need to be administered with a tough love approach that gives frequent rewards (food treats, housing, clothing, electronics) for progress and non-violent punishments (pushups, jogging, cleaning) for mishaps.

Why do some kids graduate from this addictive lifestyle to become contributing tax payers? The more intelligent youth get bored with standing in lines to eat and sleep. The minute they recognize that their life is floundering is the moment that intervention has a chance to work. Job Corps, Outside In, New Avenues for Youth and Janus Youth Services have programs in Portland that reach out to kids before they are indoctrinated in street behavior. These agencies place them in transitional housing and work to get them back in school. Unfortunately, funding is limited for the long term counseling required for indoctrination into a middle class values.

These children need to learn basic lessons in self-care. They must to be taught how to purchase food, set a table, clean an apartment, study for exams, manage their money, and get along with others. They have to learn about bank accounts, personal hygiene, who to trust, how to complete applications, what job opportunities are possible and where to get training. They need to be taught to drive a car, how to dress for work, and what type of body piercings and tattoos are inappropriate. These, skills routinely taught by middle class parents are alien to those who have not had parental guidance.

The child Ray and I befriended is successful in part because we recognized that he was not afraid of heights. He was fearless when asked to help clean the roof. A career as an industrial painter was the perfect solution for him. High bridges and water towers keep his adrenaline flowing. No longer is life boring, nor is there a need to escape with drugs.

I believe that children who experienced parental love when young have a better chance of surviving a crisis during their teens. Even if they experienced violence or addiction they still feel valued by their parents. An insight came from a friend of mine who at one time lived next door to a dysfunctional household. My friend had a large garden and invited his neighbor-children to help plant and weed in the spring and harvest vegetables to take home in the fall. . . . Fast forward eleven years when of the girls was heard talking to her brother. “Do you remember when Dad had that garden and we all worked in it together?” Her sibling laughed in response by reminding her that their father was an alcoholic. “Don’t you remember that it was the neighbor’s garden?” he asked. The girl had wanted so much to believe that her father was a loving family man that she transferred her neighbor’s actions to her own parent. Children cling to good childhood memories and creatively make up new ones when needed, expanding them to fill voids. According to Kevin Donegan from Janus Youth Services, “Every youth wants to believe that he or she is desired. During holidays they all wish they could go home.”

The topic of youth homelessness is huge and I have only skirted a few issues. Drugs, alcohol, transgender and mental difficulties present their own challenges that need to be dealt with in individualized ways. Government statistics skim the surface and do not tell how to treat the problem. I am writing a book on the subject which is why I look forward to your comments.

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References:

http://www.safehorizon.org/page/homeless-youth-statistics–facts-69.html – Homeless Youth Statistics.

Gang Leader for a Day by Sudhir Venkatesh: About the Chicago housing projects and gang life.

Information gained from my own experiences as well as interviews with Keven Donegon, from Janus Youth Services, Kathy Oliver from Outside Inn, and Dewey Taylor a Job Corps trainer.

Achieving Mastery

Curious Cat Emerging                                                                                                                                     24” x 28” acrylic painting – NFS                                                                                                         Curiosity motivates one to achieve mastery

When I was in my early thirties I had a dancing partner who could lift me into a wide variety of positions. I would run across the room and leap in his muscular arms to be spun over head and then placed gently on the floor. My body was flexible and strong due to years of practice. The experience was exhilarating because I was able to complete physical moves directed from my imagination. It was the first time that I truly understood the concept of personal mastery. Though I would never be a professional performer, my body was as fine-tuned as it would ever get. Unfortunately, this feeling of physical capability slowly dissolved as I aged and became busy taking care of children while getting a masters degree at Michigan State University.

In the same vein, a friend of mine shared a story that has stayed with me over the years. He taught music in a wealthy suburban high school where many students were excellent musicians. Deciding to start a jazz band with the very best of them, he assumed that with such talent all he had to do is circulate the score and they would play magnificently. Instead of music, however, what he got was discordant sounds that had no semblance of professional orchestration. He told me that he had to take the students back to basics, making sure they all joined in the same rhythm and played in-key before he could permit one or another band member to have freedom of self-expression. His students needed a conductor to closely monitor their movements. Though, each individual had a degree of mastery over his or her instrument, when it came to a collaborative effort, a different type of organization was needed. With his tale I discovered that some mastery results from a team effort.

I started to think about what it takes to be accomplished and why some people attain proficiency but so many more do not. In my teens I traveled across the Atlantic on a Holland American Line ship. The waiters were European and extremely well trained, insuring that every plate was properly placed and orders prepared with style. The server and his apprentice had excellent deportment and gave their complete attention to the diners they served. To me they appeared to be in a zen state, for they acted as one with what they were doing. These men took pleasure in their work and it was satisfying to give them a gratuity at the end of the voyage. Though I have been on a great many ships since that crossing I have never experienced similar service. I realized then that taking pride in what you are doing is an essential part of virtuosity.

More recently I have been become aware of the skills needed to be an industrial painter, noticing the satisfaction shown by graduates who complete four years of apprenticeship training. Because painting requires frequent inspection, their work is well reviewed. Those who are accomplished are recognized and rewarded by boss and colleagues. It is understandable that these skilled workers want to be treated with dignity and compensated for the mastery they bring to their work.

And so it goes . . .surgeons, dentists, computer programers and housecleaners all have an opportunity to master their professions and take pride in their work, but not all do.

Painting company managers complain that they have a difficult time getting enough trained employees willing to put in the effort to maintain excellence. They have to deal with those who are late to the job, leave unfinished spots (called holidays) and work for a pay check rather than out of joy.

I know of a dentist who acted similarly. He would arrive at his office, speak to a few of his most prestigious patients, then turn the work over to a subordinate so he could manage his investments. He made a lot of money and might have been quite competent when younger, but in his forties he lost his passion for his profession. To maintain mastery there needs to be an element of joy in what you are doing.

On June 7th, NPR had a program discussing the thousands of patients who die in small community hospitals from operations done by surgeons who do not have a great deal of experience with a particular type of surgery. Rates of success are much higher in large cities where doctors have opportunities to practice procedures under the watchful eye of an accomplished supervisor. Practice, practice, practice is a necessity for even motivated individuals. And, along with practice comes the need for focus. Mastery often involves putting blinders on to other activities. The old adage, “you can’t do it all,” comes into play.

So, why are some, but not all young people motivated to work for self-improvement rather than grades or monetary compensation? And, how did they obtain a desire for engagement that encompasses a willingness to overcome failures. Where did they acquire their thirst for knowledge?

According to Stanford psychologist Paul O’Keefe school and home environments play a major role in creating motivation. A culture that stresses learning for the sake of learning will more likely produce a person who wants to master an activity rather than simply perform it, and those who are curious are more likely to strive for mastery than those who are detached. If the focus becomes one of outperforming fellow students, rather than getting enjoyment from the activity, then the stress of competition is likely to produce anxiety. Environments that encourage intellectual risk-taking and reduce competition help students gain a desire for proficiency. The student who sets self-learning goals becomes willing to practice.

But, once competent, can everyone go from good to great? This question has been raised by researchers according to author Christopher Bergland, writing for a May 21, 2013 Psychology Today article. Studies show that there are quite a few factors involved in reaching elite status; the age you begin to learn the skill, innate ability, intelligence, amount of sleep you get and your working memory all come into play. Of course, study and practice are also important, but to be really great you have to love what you are doing. As Zach Hambrick of Michigan State University says, “you need to find the sweet spot between boredom and anxiety where your skill level perfectly matches the level of challenge.” With this balance a person obtains what he calls superfluidity, which leads to mastery.

The important lesson is that when people get an accurate assessment of their abilities and interests then they are more likely to choose fields to study where they can achieve their goals. The advice of Hambrick’s research is that you should “love what you do and pour yourself into it.” Without that passion, no amount of practice will make you an expert.

Since no one is good at everything, my advice for students of any age is to keep searching until a special activity is found to be enthralling. It could be a job or hobby, but once discovered, joy will follow from the process of learning and improving. Each successful step will increase motivation, develop confidence, promote happiness, and engender a sense of self-fulfillment.

With these thoughts about individual mastery I will leave the question of group mastery or team work for next week.

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References:

http://news.stanford.edu/news/2012/may/shape-achievement-goals-051012.html – The environment had help shape achievement goals.

https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/the-athletes-way/201305/can-practice-alone-create-mastery Secret to mastering a skill.

Good vs Evil

Apples from Eden

Apples from Eden
a study in Good vs. Evil
40” x 30” acrylic painting, $490

Thank Goodness 
Those of us who pay attention to the news can easily come to the conclusion that there is little hope for humanity. Articles abound with tales of cruelty and dysfunction, reminding us constantly of the negative aspects of human behavior. Road rage, gang warfare, bigotry theft and child abuse are crammed into our brains as though they are the norm rather than the exception.

In support of these negative revelations, I had a fearful experience last month when just past midnight two men tried to break into our home. Due to extensive damage from a February storm, contractors had place scaffolding and trash containers on our property. At night, with lights turned off, it was not surprising that enterprising thieves thought the place had been abandoned during construction. That certainly was not the case.

Awakened by the sound of door handles being jiggled we instantly became alert. Ray immediately recognized what was happening and quietly crept out of bed to dress and locate a flashlight. He then tiptoed to a darkened room near the creaks, peered out the window and shined his flashlight in the surprised eyes of the intruders. Two startled hooded men wasted no time in bolting away. In the meantime, I stayed frozen in my bed, huddled under blankets, wondering whether to call the police. Afterwards Ray and I us discussed the despicable state of society and returned to sleep, never imagining that the men might return. Two hours later soft sounds were again heard, this time on the scaffolding at the other side of the house, and the chase repeated itself. The incident left us very cautions about leaving doors unlocked, bringing great sadness, since we both grew up in neighborhoods where no-one ever locked their doors.

Basically I am a glass is half full type of person and do not dwell on negativity, so it was not long before the incident receded into my sub-conscious. Then a month later, a most upsetting event occurred that made me once more reevaluate my understanding of good vs. evil.

On the way to a pottery class, I had removed my engagement ring in order to protect it from being imbedded with clay. It was very carefully placed along with my car keys in a deep pants pocket. The hours ticked by pleasantly I until returned home and went to put on the ring, only to discover that it was gone. The wash of panic that spread through me was instant. Had I left it in the clay studio? Did it fall out in the parking lot of the art center? I remembered that I had also gone to a supermarket and thought it could have been lost there. The ring probably got caught in my keys and fell to the ground when they were pulled from my pocket.

This ring is very special. Not only was it expensive, but it was given to me with love at an extremely vulnerable time. Ray and I had been looking at diamonds for about a year, exploring Portland jewelry stores as well as merchants as far away as Hong Kong. Unbeknownst to me, he kept returning to visit a local jeweler to inspect an estate ring with a European cut diamond. Instead of using laser tools as they do today, old world craftsmen used to shape diamonds by hand, making each stone unique and special. Since the this particular ring was expensive, it continued to sit at the jewelers for many months while my life went on without it.

Then, eight years ago, I was diagnosed with breast cancer and had to have a double mastectomy. Knowing that I was sad at having to lose a prideful part of my body, Ray acted unexpectedly. He purchased the antique ring and presented it to me, demonstrating his love as well a compassion. My broken body was not going to keep him away. We were engaged to each other.

You might now understand why I was so very upset when the jewelry was lost. Though I did have insurance, this particular item was irreplaceable as a symbol of our commitment to each other. My heart and mind started to race as I sped back to the supermarket to crawl on burning pavement to search under cars. I was sure that by the time of my search someone had already found the ring and kept it to sell. There seemed little chance for it to meet the hands of an honest person, especially at that particular market, but I did give the customer service attendant my information before rushing on to the clay studio which seemed to be the more logical place for the loss.

During these auto trips I thought about what Ray’s reaction would be, imagining the worst. Would he shout and scream about my carelessness and tell me how unthinking and clumsy I am? I wondered if he would leave me over the incident, giving super-credence to the ring as the commitment, rather than one made by two individuals. I cried and started to pray, negotiating for a belief in God if the jewelry was found, knowing that such a conversion would be difficult. The idea of putting up posters and announcing a finders bonus for whomever found the ring entered my head. I considered if it would be better to hide the truth and not tell anyone, at least until the insurance company was contacted or the posters had a chance to work. As thoughts tumbled, my mind raced, heart pounded, and I kept telling myself to drive carefully.

The trip to the clay studio produced equally unsuccessful results even though several staff assisted me in a search. There was nothing left to do but return home and accept the loss.

Upon entering the house I noticed the telephone message light blinking, suspecting it was my sister calling. You might imagine my surprise when I discovered that it was a customer service person saying that someone had found an engagement ring in the supermarket parking lot, and please phone back to describe the one I lost. Not waiting to make the call, I started my third dash to the store, hoping that the diamond was mine and not someone else’s sad loss. Running to the counter I learned that the man who had called my home was on break and no-one there knew whereabouts of a ring. The next half hour was very difficult as I paced back an forth through the isles waiting for the employee to return to his post. The story does end well, thankfully, for the ring was mine, though the gold setting was damaged. A car must have run over it.

I was elated, not only by the thought of someone being able to see a small sparkle amongst parked cars, but that the individual turned it in. A feeling of warmth and happiness spread throughout my body, and I mentally sent out thanks to the good samaritan who had reconfirmed my belief that people are basically good and caring.

Steve Taylor, PhD. in the Aug. 26th issue of Psychology Today in 2013 wrote that, “It’s a dangerous over-simplification to believe that some people are innately ‘good’ while others are innately ‘evil’ or ‘bad.’” He claims that it is misleading to think that bad people are the ones who commit crimes and should be locked up because they are evil. He continues to say that this concept is the fuel for many wars because people start believing that it is just to fight an evil enemy. Good and evil behavior, rather than being intrinsic, he says, is a complex part of human nature. Most people have both good and bad qualities within that are influenced by environmental and family factors.

Recently, European justice systems, unlike our own, started recognizing these complexities. Cases are now prosecuted with the idea of providing restorative justice. Offenders are given the chance to meet their victims and learn about the effects of their crime. What has been discovered is that so called evil people can be affected by these interactions and influenced to change their demeanor. A newly acquired sense of empathy is the first step to their rehabilitation. Though not every criminal is successfully changed, enough are, so that the approach is considered worthwhile.

According to Taylor righteousness emerges when people are connected. I concur with him when he says that “goodness is fundamental to human nature.” Even those who have joined gangs have learned to be loyal and supportive of other members. Evil, in all of its psychopathic forms, is most likely to emerge when when there is social disconnection.

With these lessons in mind, I choose to think that people have more goodness within than not, and that society has the ability to increase humaneness by the way it operates to heal discord.

Please share your thoughts. It would be fun to get a discussion going.

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Reference:
https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/out-the-darkness/201308/the-real-meaning-good-and-evil – Good Vs Evil

Whose freedom is it?

Meet the Blockheads
                                   Meet the Blockheads

acrylic painting – 22” x 18” $ 385
Training a child to become independent is an awesome job.

Whose Freedom Is It?
When my granddaughter was 16, she wanted to be free from her parents’ control. As a typical teenager she took her cues from her friends which often led to major disagreements at home. To my children’s credit my granddaughter did not always get her way, but her parents were good at adapting to age related situations in order to give her increased independence. Beach parties were big events in their coastal community and one year my granddaughter wanted to have one for her birthday, without parental supervision. Hummm,. . . .sounds good, but alcohol, drugs, and “what not” were often a part of teen beach events.

What would you do? Say no, or allow the festivities to take place? Her parents took a creative approach that let the party proceed. My son-in-law set up his own solitary party away from the revelers, but located within site lines of his daughter and her friends. The weather was perfect and during the evening he became engrossed in a book in front of his own fire while nibbling on snacks brought from home. He let the kids have fun for as long and they wanted, staying out of the way, but because everyone knew that there was an adult paying attention to their antics, the party proceeded without incident.

All children are going to become old enough to make their own decisions, but a difficult part of parenting is preparing them for this eventuality. Many years ago I read that offspring of parents who are very controlling while their children are in high school are often the wildest ones during freshman year at college. I am reminded of an incident that occurred when I was in 9th grade. While riding a public bus on the way home from school, my friends and I observed girls from a local private school who were made adhere to a strict dress code. As soon as these teens boarded the bus, out came their compact powders, lipsticks and combs. The girls refashioned their hair and added earrings and other jewelry to their attire. In order to soften the look of their uniforms, shirt tails would be pulled out of skirt bands and left casually hanging. Much to the discomfort of other the passengers, the students became loud and boisterous, acting as though they were riding a private vehicle. My friends and I felt sorry for them because they seemed out of control, and we gossiped about them behind their backs.

This incident raises the question of what is free choice, and how much of it should a parent give to their offspring? Freedom tied to responsibility is the goal, but how does one get reach that point? If a child does not clean the dishes or throws his or her clothes on the bedroom floor, is that freedom of choice? Perhaps it is, but those actions also can impinge on the parent’s freedom. If the adult does not agree to let the child use or abuse his own bedroom then the parent becomes a monitor, bringing feelings of anger because of increased household work and paying for clothing that is not valued.

So who and what is free? Teaching responsibility to accompany free choice starts at an early age. It involves discussions and actions that have consequences aimed at exploring the “what if?” question from several points of view. It also involves being present, without anger, when a child makes an honest mistake and stumbles. Being there to sooth raw emotions, and inviting verbal analysis of the event, with the goal of finding a path to avoid future pitfalls, presents an opportunity parents should cherish as long their children remain under their roof. When teens leave for a job or distant college campus, it is too late to teach the analytical skills needed for decision making.

When my children were young, we used the dinner hour as the main time to discuss and dissect daily issues. We would bring problems to the table and try to look at them from several viewpoints. Occasionally and just for the fun of it, I would introduce a complex situation from work, so all could contribute to a “How would you handle it?” discussion. We had lots of discourse, not always agreeing, but constantly thinking and gaining perspective from the various sides of the problem. There were many times when we became frustrated, such as when one child teased another, because we could not find a solution that stopped the behavior. In those occasions we did have to step in with a firm resolution from parental authority. The ensuing discussion about teasing and repercussions did eventually grab hold and helped to alleviate the situation.

My suggestion to parents is to start having philosophical conversations at an early age and bring children into a discussion of outcomes and fair consequences. Even a 5 year old can consider ethical and social issues. For instance, you might ask a youngster a question like, “ What should you do if you find a dollar in the driveway of your neighbor’s house? Do you keep it or return it?”

When the child in a bit older the subject of bullying might be introduced by inquiring, “What roll should a bystander take who observes a friend being bullied?” The conversations will most likely lead to talk of how the bullied person might feel and what would lead a person to becoming a bully. When my youngest child was being heckled because of his short stature, he and my husband spent hours thinking up and practicing quick retorts. By demonstrating that he was not embarrassed or put off by the bully, my son eventually put an end to the unwanted situation. The exercise also taught him to accept himself as a short person and not let it affect his life.

Young women love to talk about around body and facial adornment. It can be fun to debate cultural applications of makeup and tattoos applied in tribal communities, by prostitutes or actors, and by various socio-economic groups in local neighborhoods. Fashion certainly can produce a lively exchange of ideas. Because the discussion becomes a sociological lesson rather than a confrontation, the subject becomes mind expanding. Youngsters learn that a choice of lipstick color is often determined by the pressure of friends, a marketing expert or tribal custom, rather than one of free choice.

There are numerous conversations that might evolve from auto-speak. An adult who is knowledgeable about automobiles could discuss cars and how the selection of one model over another says something about the buyer. The economy, ecology, status symbol, safety, driver’s responsibilities, alternative transportation, even the topic of fuel efficiency at various driving speeds can be debated. It is through these types of conversations that children develop value systems.

So . . . parent’s and grandparents why not have frequent conversations with your children around the subject of freedom. By considering several points of view your child can refine his or her analytical skills. Then as your child ages, permit your youngster to test conclusions, allowing him or her to experience the lows of failure and the highs of success. A parent who is available to insure safety can reassure their child that mistakes are normal. This will go a long way in building their offspring’s self-confidence. It is by examining failures and being encouraged to try again that people grow. In this way parents, grandparents and teachers can help children understand the implications of so called “free choice.”

Transitions

  The Santiam Pass Burn

                                       The Santiam Pass Burn Area – an ecology in transition                                          

 acrylic painting – 22” x 18” $ 275

Transitions Create Energy

My NIA (non impact aerobics) \ teacher commented theater day that transitions create energy. Each time we shifted from one movement or shape to another she encouraged us to spring into the new position with gusto. I appreciated her observation and started to think about the energy needed for transitions other than movement, such as those that impact the environment, my life, and writing.

Several weeks ago, while traveling through central Oregon, I observed the shock caused by a massive fire to land and surviving animals. The view from my car window was chilling, seemingly as though I was peering at an alien planet. Black charred trees contrasted with white gnarled bleached branches that stood naked in the scorched ground. In 2003, fire destroyed 90,769 acres of Oregon forests totaling approximately 100 square miles. The Santiam Pass had succumbed to a failed U.S. Forest Service policy of suppression. Without small and frequent burns to clear underbrush, the forest had grown thicker and drier. It was weakened by disease and drought and demonstrates what can happen after a century of fire suppression and timber harvests that leave brush behind. The burn area is now a land in transition. Caused by energy, it consumed an energy source, and will need years of energetic renewal to repair itself. It will be fascinating to observe primary plant succession in action and see how many animals return to feed on young shoots. After the eruption of Mt. St. Helens, the deer population exploded as growth returned. However, in this case, the sun beams hot, temperatures are elevated and regrowth seems slow.

Leaving childhood, entering college, becoming married, and parenthood were periods that initiated a time of personal transition and growth. On the sad side was my divorce. I was devastated, cried constantly at first and felt like my world was coming apart. “How would I ever be able to live in my creaky house or travel to foreign lands as a single woman?” I wondered.

I decided to let myself mourn for as long a time as needed, but while doing so, wallowing in self-pity would not be acceptable. Since I could no longer depend on someone else to lead the way, I had to create my own path. Match.com became one of my solutions, putting me out into what I thought would be scary situations. Much to my surprise, the website introduced me to some of the nicest men in town. I became energized, and for one year had a blast, feeling like I was reliving my college weekends. I had partners for dancing, visiting art exhibitions and taking long bicycle rides with stops on hot afternoons for drippy ice cream cones. With new acquaintances I visited summer festivals, took in soccer games and went on picnics and hikes in the woods. One man had a mathematics toy that he had invented for elementary school children, and since I was in the educational toy business, I was able to get his product marketed. The royalty checks were fun to receive.

By the end of the year I had a better sense of myself. As a stronger woman I was not as dependent on a partner, no longer afraid of intruders and more willing to travel on my own. In fact, there were times I preferred to be alone because I was more open to meeting interesting strangers along the way. I still valued stable companionship, however, and by the end of the year was once more in a committed relationship. This time though, I was determined to accept my partner and present myself as “take-it-or-leave-it ” packages. We no longer had to blend into one entity but could retain our individuality as we held hands. The transition from marriage to divorce to a partnership required increased energy that helped me better understand close relationships.

Coping with change is a constant that from time to time each of us is bound to face. Transitions: Making Sense of Life’s Changes by William Bridges is a relevant book that discusses how change brings both opportunities and turmoil. Bridges helps readers understand that there are three stages to any transition; the Ending, the Neutral Zone, and eventually the New Beginning. There needs to be patience and acceptance of the steps needed in order to evolve.

Transitions create a period for tremendous growth. New learning has to take place since familiar patterns have changed. Experiences will be different and fear has to be overcome. There are times, as in illness or death, when it is difficult to go through a period of upheaval alone. Imbuing energy to the situation may require the help of a trained professional, or you may be the one called to assist a loved one face their new reality, requiring you to become infused with a strength that you did not know you had. When my son developed cancer, it meant that both my husband and I had to spend two-thirds of our day assisting him while we continued to conduct our ongoing affairs. It was a difficult and emotional time, but I learned a great deal about the medical profession, giving organizations like Make a Wish Foundation, the spirit of the human psyche, and the well of energy within our family that was there when it needed to be called forth. I am thankful that all ended well, and our son is appreciative of his good health, maintaining it with good food habits and exercise.

Giving birth to children, watching them grow up and leave home, and welcoming grandchildren are all milestones that create a changed life style. For the child, transitions can be difficult since they are usually instigated by something beyond their control. Moving, divorce, a new school all create stress that may need the assistance of an an in-tuned parent. It takes fortitude to be attentive to offspring and often requires the adult to acquire new coping skills. None of us are born parents. Most are on-the-job students who become trained when unexpected family situations present themselves.

When each of my five childrenI reached eleventh grade, I mourned the approaching empty nest. By the time they actually graduated, my worry period had ended, for I had used the year to consider next steps. The approaching transitions energized me, and I became busy planning for and learning how to operate a new business.

Bob Dylan sang true when he wrote, The times they are a-changin’.
Come gather ’round people
Wherever you roam
And admit that the waters
Around you have grown
And accept it that soon
You’ll be drenched to the bone
If your time to you
Is worth savin’
Then you better start swimmin’
Or you’ll sink like a stone
For the times they are a-changin’. . . .

As my offspring matured they kept me thinking young, for their conversations were often a windows to new ideas and approaches. In many ways their lives are more difficult than mine was because of changing worldwide economic and environmental conditions, yet they are adapting by embracing ways of enjoying a more frugal existence, eating organic foods, and having lower impact on the environment. The women no longer think of themselves as primary support systems to husbands, but have their own careers and relationships based on shared responsibilities. Since they married at a later age than I did, they had time to develop close-knit circles of friendship that recognize the need for independence yet are there to provide support when needed.

Transitions create energy applies to all of the arts. Just as a dancer is energized by a conversion step giving rise to the next pose and an artist becomes excited by preparing a canvas to take paint, so does a writer become empowered by the use of changeover words and phrases. When writing it is important to know how to get from one thought to the next. Consideration has to be given to the best way to provide energy going forward? Phrases like in addition, not to mention, equally important, and moreover take the author out of a dead end position into the next concept. These words are essential, because they not only connect ideas, but introduce a change, a shift or contrast, an emphasis or agreement. They are vital and useful words that bring purpose or conclusion to an argument.

Yes, transitions do create energy, bringing intensity to nature, work, play, and the arts. They demand that effort be put forth as Dylan says, “if your time to you is worth savin’, then you better start swimmin’.”

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References follow:

http://www.amazon.com/Transitions-Changes-Revised-Anniversary-Edition/dp/073820904X – To purchase book about Transitions by William Bridges.

http://education.wichita.edu/caduceus/examples/essay_student/transitions.htm – Transition words.

http://www.azlyrics.com/lyrics/bobdylan/thetimestheyareachangin.html – Lyrics to The Times They are a Changin’ by Bob Dylan.

Passing the Baton

French QuarterNew Orleans 

Acrylic Painting – 12” x 36” – $ 350
A city where cool sounds of Jazz permeates the French Quarter

Passing the Baton
How do you provide a music education when your own experience is limited? Some children are fortunate because their parents are trained musicians. Others, like mine were, have parents who believe that education should include music. Though they pay for lessons, they do not know how to inspire their offspring to become passionate about their instruments, so the money they spend is not used to maximum effect.

Except for the scales and easy pieces played when my siblings and I practiced, music was not heard in our household. Neither radio, television nor record player was used to fill our home with melodies, though we occasionally were taken to children’s concerts. My family finally obtained a phonograph when I was sixteen allowing a few symphonic records and lots of rock n roll to enter our home. With marginal role models pointing the way, as an adult I was committed to creating a more musical home.

When my children were still in pre-school my husband and I set up an instrument tree in our living room. A floor to ceiling pole was erected with clips attached from which to hang all sorts of sound makers. It held tambourines, recorders, maracas, bells, whistles, harmonicas, drums, cymbals, sticks, and a wide variety of shakers. Each day I would put on a record (pre-CDs) and gather my young band members to sing, march and dance around the house while struggling with the challenge of staying on beat. Though visiting friends must of thought us to be a strange, noisy bunch, the kids took their music activities very seriously and had a great time.

As an adult, my husband learned the guitar and encouraged singing in the evenings, on long car rides and around campfires. He eventually became so accomplished as a musician that he and a group of professor friends formed a bluegrass band. The Bluegrass Extension Service practiced in our home and performed weekly in a local pub, attracting hordes of students to clog along with the music. I loved dancing to his music and had a wonderful time chatting with university friends. Our family quickly learned to belt out Rocky Top and Country Roads.

In analyzing my own musical talents, I admit that they were not great. I can not sing on key and though I studied the piano as a child, I was a mediocre player who found it difficult to read and strike a multitude of keys at one time. It still amazes me that people can actually understand complex scores with thirty second notes, trills and chords. In my thirties I decided to try again, this time taking up the flute since there is only one note to read at a time. With children running around the house my squeaky sounds added to the chaos, but the family was tolerant, and I do believe my perseverance may have inspired them.

My retired symphony orchestra teacher was sensitive, quickly realizing that I was not in training to be the next Sir James Galway, Jeanne Baxtresser or Herbie Mann. Instead of assigning hours of practice scales he had me play beginning music that could immediately be enjoyed with friends. A few of my enthusiastic neighbors were even willing to accompany me on the piano, making my practice very pleasurable indeed.

As my children reached their elementary grades their music-anti was raised. A willing teacher offered before-class recorder sessions in our neighborhood school. By the time they were eight, all of my off spring had had experience with musical notations, and were ready and willing to be enrolled in piano lessons. One daughter, who had an exceptional ear for sound, took up the violin as well. (No squeaky sounds there! ) My childhood spinet had a rotating hot seat for several hours each day.

It took a great deal of time to drive children to and from music lessons and recitals, and it was often annoying to be surrounded by discordant sound but in the end I found it to be worth the effort. Two daughters and I formed an ensemble that could play piano, violin and flute trios. The fun we had and pride we took in our small chamber group produced an emotional high I will remember forever.

Why did I believe that music education was so important? Many studies show that early musical training develops the left part of the brain, the side involved in reasoning and language. There also appears to be a link between the ability to perceive things accurately and form mental pictures of them. Music helps in understanding advanced mathematical problems, which may be why geniuses like Albert Einstein play the violin as their preferred leisure time outlet. A ten year study conducted in 2006 by Johnson,C.M. & Memmott, J.E. showed that children, irregardless of socio-economic background, had increased success on standardized tests such as the SAT. It also affirmed that those who play instruments tend to achieve higher school grades.

Columbia University research that “ students in the arts are found to be more cooperative with teachers and pears, more self-confident and better able to express their ideas.” They also found lower aggressive and anti-social behavior. Best of all those who participate in band and orchestra have, “ the lowest lifelong use of alcohol, tobacco and illicit drugs among any group in society.” Participating in a band or orchestra enhances teamwork skills and discipline. Practice improves study habits, and performances help youth accept risks and overcome fear.

When my children aged I was curious to see if their musical experiences would stay with them. Eldest son followed his father’s example and took up the guitar as an adult. He still takes voice and guitar lessens, practices regularly with friends, performs for family, and sings with his sons. When his sons were only two years old he enrolled them in a parent-child singing group that provided a great bonding experience. Now the entire family sings their way through family gatherings and evening camp fires.

Eldest daughter continued to play the piano for her own entertainment until a few years ago when she became very busy with a second career. When her children were young, however, she introduced them to both piano and choral singing. Her son became a classical and Celtic violin player who even serenaded me in the hospital when I was ill, much to the pleasure of the nursing staff and patients in surrounding rooms. Her three children know the words to the latest country/western songs and one even gives line dance lessons. Not sure where that came from!

Violin playing daughter taught music professionally to young children. She was most qualified to help her own family with their lessons. Her daughter studied harp for a while, becoming quite accomplished, at times accompanying her older sister who was taking voice lessons. To my sorrow, the harp was dropped with the mounting pressure of high school activities and a burgeoning social life, though both girls still enjoy the piano. Their younger brother is in the beginning trumpet stage. Yikes!!!

One daughter never achieved personal musical mastery but embraced the vibrant Seattle music scene. Her enjoyment was a pleasure to observe.

Youngest son fell in love with bongo drums as a teenager. Thank goodness he and his friends would go to a local park during the late night hours to beat their rhythmic sounds. He eventually bought a full drum set, but it sits in his abode gathering dust because of complaints by the neighbors. Much of his musical outlet today is around burning man activities. He has many friends who are in bands and they gather in his camp, playing well into the night. Parties in his home are unique because rotating musicians entertain throughout the event.

The benefits of music participation are not limited to youth, for it also is a great asset to the elderly. It can help those with dementia reconnect with their past, becoming more alive and responsive. The health benefits music brings to older people are impressive, especially when mixed with exercise. Moving to rhythmic sounds reduce risk of falling and increase balance. Participants are happier, have enhanced moods and appear more relaxed. Music education can also bring joy to those with special needs when the teacher takes time to adapt a program to the individual’s disability. Not only does music give pleasure to the student, but it gives an increased sense of self-worth.

My flute teacher once told me that when you have music in your life you will always have friends. I acknowledge that his words ring true. For four generations our family has passed on the baton.

Whether opera, metallica, rock or rap there is some form of acoustic harmony that you will find appealing. Music can be meditative when seeking solitude and calmness or equally enjoyable in groups when feeling festive. Whether playing or listening, it is one of the rich offerings in life that I’ve come to appreciate.

How does your family pass the baton from one generation to the next? Do you focus on the arts, literature, sports, nature or something else? Please share your way of passing on your passions to others.  DO RESPOND BELOW

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References:

http://www.childrensmusicworkshop.com/twelve-benefits-of-music-education/ – Advantages of a music education.

http://musicempowersfoundation.org/why-music/the-importance-of-music – Studies about music, language and mathematics skills.

http://www.npr.org/sections/music-news/ – Elderly and dementia

http://www.dreamsfulfilledthroughmusi-org – Music and special needs

http://www.music2spark.com/2011/11/28/the-elderly-how-music-benefits-their-health/ – music and health.

IQ News and You

Building BlocksBuilding Blocks 

24” x 28” – an acrylic painting by Marilynne – $ 450
Stacking blocks in a prescribed order is a challenge in IQ tests.

IQ News and You
When I was nine years old, a friend of my mother’s was taking university courses in educational psychology. For one class she needed practice subjects to give IQ tests to and used my brother and me as volunteer subjects. The test was quite thorough and included tactile manipulatives as well as pencil and paper answers. Though not at genius level, I remember receiving a score that was enough over average to satisfy my parents. From that day on, they accepted the test result as gospel, and increased their expectation of how well I should do in school. My grades acceptable, because in my father’s eyes a girl was not expected to be a brain. Schooling was there to make me a good mother and educated companion to my future husband. Since I was not as important as my brother, I was not overly pressured. In the long run his lack of attention turned me into an achiever.

My brother did not fare as well as I even though he registered equally high on the Stanford Binet scale. He did not react well to my father’s expectations and pushed back by not completing assignments, cutting classes, and just skating through his high school years. School bored him. For many months he hid in his bedroom engrossed in reading the Encyclopedia Britannica from cover to cover, yet his poor grades trumped his independent study in my parent’s eyes. At the end of high school went so far as to falsify his report card by giving himself straight As, and for a few summer months the family was happy. When he never received a college acceptance letter, however, my mother went to school to find out what was going on and discovered that his A grades were really Fs.

“What will he amount to?” my father shouted. “He is good for nothing. Get out of the house.” Though this brother caused a great deal of chaos, his turbulent childhood turned him into an independent thinker. My father gave up, washing his hands of him so to speak, assuming he would slither through life, amounting to nothing.

Thankfully the story does not end badly. After four years in the military, where he managed to get himself assigned to Germany instead of Vietnam, he graduated in urban studies from a four year college to become a productive development entrepreneur. The test he had taken as a child had neglected to measure drive and perseverance. Though he did not like school, no one considered his ability to concentrate on things he did enjoy. Internal motivations, fear of failure and craving for success to prove to his father that he was OK were strong factors in his ambition. In addition, the test never evaluated his interaction with friends or his ability to organize and impress others. And most importantly it did not take into account that people have the power to change their brain.

One benefit of IQ tests like the Stanford Binet or Weschler IV is that they can identify gifted students early. Many of these children are the ones who wind up bored in school and need extra nurturing at an early age. Talented and gifted programs used to be available for these children, but in much of the nation, due to budget cuts, TAG has unfortunately been eliminated. The tests also help educators identify those below average in order to provide extra instruction for those who risk falling behind. Since No Child Left Behind there appears to be more emphasis on helping slow learners.

The downside of the test for a high scoring child is that it can actually stifle potential. Repeatedly telling a person how smart he or she is may get interpreted as this should be easy for me. When solving a difficult problem the child may not take the challenge and instead give up. I have friends who are very intelligent but have little drive to succeed and so they sit around feeling sorry for themselves. At the other end of the spectrum, the low IQ student may develop a poor self-image and label himself as being dumb, deciding that it is not worth trying.

Expectations: In 1964 classic study was conducted in a San Fransico elementary school by Harvard professor Robert Rosenthal. Teachers were informed that the test he was going to administer had the ability to predict which kids were about to achieve a dramatic growth in their IQ. Once the test was taken he randomly chose several children from each class and informed the teachers “those selected were on the verge of an intense intellectual bloom.” Over the next two years Rosenthal followed the children and discovered that expectations affected teachers interactions in many subtle ways. Those expected to succeed were given more time to answer questions, more specific feedback, and received more approvals. They were consistently touched, nodded to and smile at, and as a result increased their IQ score.

More recently, psychologist Howard Gardner has been trying to change expectations by getting people to think more generally about intelligence. He talks of different types of smart rather than only the linguistic and logical-mathematic abilities usually evaluated by IQ tests. Visual-spacial,interpersonal, bodily-kinesthetic, intrapersonal, auditory-musical are abilities rarely appraised in school testing programs. Yet those strengths, along with a desire to succeed and fortitude, can be more important than traditional IQ measurements.

Good News: Scientists have discovered that the brain can reorganize itself when confronted with new challenges, even through adulthood. A consortium of researchers including Columbia University, Harvard, Blue Cross Blue Shield, and Abbott Labs have developed a program called Luminosity. Basically they have developed a series of exercises aimed at increasing memory, attention, speed, flexibility, and problem solving. It works for those who commit themselves to the process. Living life fully also trains the brain. The boy with the average IQ mentioned above spent much of his young adult years working in jobs that required him to think on his feet. He eventually launched his own company, having to reinvent and improve it over the years in order to be flexible with the times and economy. As he worked he boosted his memory, attention to details and organizational skills.

Bad News: The National Institute on Drug Abuse reports: “ Young people who smoke cannabis for years run the risk of a significant and irreversible reduction in their IQ.” The findings come from a longitudinal study conducted in New Zealand with approximately 1,000 people. Their international team found that those who started using cannabis below the age of 18 – while their brains were still developing – suffered an average of 8% drop in their intelligence, putting them at a great disadvantage throughout their lives. It will be interesting to follow future studies around IQ as cannabis becomes legal in more states.

Interesting News: According to the London Telegraph we are entering the science fiction world of mind enhancing drugs. A British think tank believes that these drugs might be as common as drinking coffee in a few years. Students, who want to improve their grades and those who are losing memory will benefit by new chemical developments. British medical society says “The ethical debate about whether or not to use drugs to improve performance in normal schoolchildren and students will probably be resolved over the next 20 years. Similarly, there will be continued debate about the ethics of using cognition enhancers in the workplace.”

I wonder about the side effects of these drugs and would cautiously look at the results of longitudinal studies before ingesting. What may be good for one body system could be bad for another. According to BBC writer, Mark Kohn in article about pills designed to boost brainpower: “Drugs and catastrophe are seemingly never far apart.” There are other ways to enhance intelligence. The Telegraph also informs, “that a good light’s sleep really does improve the brain.”

Great News: There recently have been many changes in how scientists access the aging brain. They used to look at it in terms of neuron failure. Now, according to University of Southern California’s Monika Guttman, it is clear that if you don’t have a specific disease that causes loss of nerve cells, then most of your neurons remain healthy until you die. New research suggests that the rate of change may be related to life style factors. For instance, lower weight may affect lower rates of disease like Alzheimers. Other factors include education: “Those who use it, don’t lose it as quickly.” New neurons are created by mental and physical exercises. Those who continue to read and question, do puzzles, get a good night’s sleep, stay away from drugs, and exercise regularly are actually increasing their mental capacities. Brain researchers suggest that people try new activities as they age. Changing job, hobbies and exercise routines will help build new synapses and capacities for thinking. Having fun also reduce stress, another inhibitor to a healthy aging brain.

My Thoughts: Keep your brain busy, healthy and wise. Eat well, exercise and challenge yourself with puzzles, games and new adventures. Play…it is good for you. Sleep … it is restorative. Learn new tidbits of information through reading and travel. Take the time to think . . . it promotes neural pathways to increased knowledge. Smile . . . you may be on Candid Camera.

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Lots of references:
http://education.seattlepi.com/pros-cons-iq-testing-schools-2014.html – Pros and cons of IQ testing.

http://www.lumosity.com/landing_pages/837?gclid=CjwKEAjws5CrBRD8ze702_2dyjYSJAAAJK9yyltcNqBvx8olsDea_7KDtzxLvTSNNnZutKB-bSBluRoCaxTw_wcB – Luminosity – Brain training games.

http://www.drugabuse.gov/publications/research-reports/marijuana/how-does-marijuana-use-affect-your-brain-body – Marijuana and the brain.

http://www.bbc.com/future/story/20140729 –  the-truth-about-smart-drugs

http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/earth/earthnews/3347174/A-good-nights-sleep-really-does-improve-the-brain.html – Sleep and the brain

https://news.usc.edu/7569/The-Aging-Brain/ – Monika Guttman on the Aging Brain

http://www.livescience.com/36143-iq-change-time.html – Can your IQ change?

http://www.npr.org/sections/health-shots/2012/09/18/161159263/teachers-expectations-can-influence-how-students-perform – 1964 test given to show how teacher’s expectations influence IQ.

Love, Duty and Instinct

1364104lLady with a Cause  – by Marilynne  

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Love, Duty and Instinct
Are you willing to die to safeguard someone you love? Members of the secret service charged with protecting the President pledge themselves to do just that. I doubt if they love the office holder, though they most likely have a sense of duty for their country and in that way justify their self-sacrifice.

How would your react if a car came barreling towards you while your child or grandchild was walking a few yards in front? Would you run to grab the youngster and protect him or her with your body even if it meant you would get hit, or would you move as fast as you can away from the impending impact to save yourself? I like to imagine (one never knows until it happens) that I would protect my child and willingly sacrifice my life for the one I love, but I wonder if I would do the same for a stranger? I do not feel as secure saying that I would act heroically and risk leaving my own children orphaned? However, it might be that in the crisis moment I would instinctually act the same way.

After the Aurora, Colorado movie theater shooting, psychologists who studied the reaction of theater goers learned that certain people reacted instinctually to protect someone else. Three of the victims died while shielding their girlfriends, and a young woman risked her life by not leaving the side of a friend who was wounded when she heroically stood to warn the audience of danger.

I wonder if these brave heroes responded out of love. Kate Waldman discussed a recent study published in PLOS ONE by Yale researchers who spoke to fifty-one men and woman who had received the Carnegie Hero Medal given to those who risk their lives to save a stranger. All of them claimed that they rescued first and reflected second when faced with their threatening decision. The study goes on to say that when people face a choice that permits time for reflection, they are less likely to be generous with themselves. Though upon consideration the person may eventually decide to act altruistically, unlike the hero, their response is not considered to be innate. After balancing risks and benefits of sacrifice their long-term strategy may not be totally selfless.

At Georgetown University research is currently being conducted around neural regions of the brain. Scientists have discovered a region of activation that processes pleasure when giving to charity. The study suggests that those who donate posses more empathy than those who do not. Researcher Abigail Marsh looked at nineteen people who had donated kidneys to strangers and compared them with twenty individuals who had not. It turned out that the amygdala, an area that monitors emotions, was 8 percent larger in the donor population.

In Altruism and the Holocaust by Jacqueline Macaulay and Leonard Berkowitz published in 1970 about gentiles willing to hide holocaust victims they write that those heroes possessed high self-esteem, a spirit of adventurousness and a willingness to tolerate danger. Their strong sense of community, as shown by frequent interactions with friends and family, led them to action.

There have also been studies demonstrating that in a crowd individuals are less likely to step forward to aide a stranger. I experienced this situation while wandering the floor of a New York trade show. At one booth I stopped to talk to a vendor and noticed his eyes suddenly turn up while his body slumped forward in slow motion. His skin paled and as he slipped to the floor he stopped breathing. A crowd quickly surrounded us. Not being trained in CPR, I shouted to the onlookers, seeking help from someone experienced. Though I asked several times, no-one came forward. Given the type of conference it was, I am sure that there were people in the audience who had been trained in CPR.

I had to act quickly and though uncomfortable with proceeding, I thought it was better to try to do something than just allow the man to die, so I started pumping his chest in a rhythmic way and hoped for the best. After about three minutes (feeling like an interminable 180 seconds), I perceived a violent thump in my hands as his heart restarted. By the time paramedics arrived his complexion had returned to normal and I knew he would live, so I walked away. I am not sure what made me act as I did, except for the fact that I was the one who happened to be talking to the man when he collapsed. If I had been in the crowd of bystanders, I probably would not have stepped forward.

What I have surmised is that heroes tend to be confident individuals who are not adverse to taking risks. Their response is instinctual and done without thought of recompense or material gain. They also have a great deal of empathy and compassion for those in need. Heroes usually are in good physical shape, and trust themselves to succeed, as in the case of a man who pulled a person back from a moving train. Altruists, in contrast, take time to analyze situations, weighing pros and cons before putting their lives on the line.

With training, people can learn to improve their reaction time and mind set to act heroically in emergencies. Navy Seals are an extreme example of men who have learned to respond quickly in dangerous situations. Physical and moral training from childhood on can increase the likelihood of creating a future hero.

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Interested in learning more about heroic actions? References follow:

http://www.slate.com/articles/health_and_science/medical_examiner/2014/10/psychology_of_heroism_and_altruism_what_makes_people_do_good_deeds.html – Heroism vs. altruism. study by Yale researchers.

http://psychology.about.com/od/socialpsychology/a/the-psychology-of-heroism.htm- About traits of heroes.

http://psychology.about.com/od/the-psychology-of/a/characteristics-of-heroism.htm – traits of heroes.

http://www.apa.org/monitor/2014/01/everyday-heroes.aspx – Am. Psychological Journal article about heroism.

Jacqueline Macaulay; Leonard Berkowitz – Altruism and the HolocaustPublisher: New York, Academic Press, 1970 about holocaust heroism.

https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/in-the-garden-good-and-evil/201203/moral-courage-heroism-and-heroic-rescue – what it takes to do heroic acts.